Question by Hello_Handsom: Please help me VERY upset!!?
I met this boy last summer through facebook. We were both transferring to the same college.
Last summer every night we’d talk. We clicked really well and agreed to meet up in August @ Orientation. Well, the day we had planned to meet up came & went and he never called/texted/nothing. I was stood up. I got very angry and told him off we didn’t talk.
December he texted me an apology “claiming” he fell asleep and how what he did was really mean and how sorry he was. I accepted his apology and we talked again. We both were seeing someone at this time though so we just talked casually about life and helped each other through tough times.
I went back down for another orientation in June of this year. And he said he’d be able to meet me there. Again…he never showed up.But this time explained to me he was working 2 jobs back home & Couldn’t get off.
A few weeks later he went back down to the college for a week. I had plans to go down that weekend. He said he’d pick me up from the airport and everything. Then suddenly, told me he had to work and couldn’t pick me up because he had work the day I was planning on coming. Granted, I couldn’t get a flight down anyway.
Then…I didn’t hear from him for a week. He totally ignored my calls, texts, etc. And suddenly…a few days ago texted me saying his phone was broken and how sorry he was. He used to always call me and now he “claims” his speaker is broke on his phone so all we can do is text too.
He then told me he’d be down on move-in day and that he’d help me move in and that he needed a place to crash since he wouldn’t be going back in the fall. I told him he could stay at my place and he said that’s fine and that we’d meet up at move-in day. He told me how much he wanted to meet me and stuff.
Then…all of a sudden last night….he said “B*tch what do you want from me?” through text. I asked him what he was talking about and he said “Why the F*** can’t you just leave me alone?”
Now, I haven’t heard from him since. I’m so confused. Is he like playing mind games with me? If he tries to apologize for speaking to me the way he did should I accept his apology? help!!
Best answer:
Answer by Justin
If I were a betting man, I’d say he’s got a girlfriend. She found out and made him send those texts all of a sudden out of the blue.
Don’t talk to him anymore. Something’s up.
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